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Sunday, August 9, 2020

is this the second wave?

 in a few more weeks I will again remember my dad's birthday, the day he had his first

 stroke and after a week, died of complications, I will also remember the day when 

my first business was established, Sept 5, 2005. I remember the job I had poured my 

blood, sweat and tears into for nearly 16 years, almost to the utter exclusion of my 

family, and friends. It was a job you would be happy to get stuck in for until you retire,

you will be hooked to the excitement, the fun, the joys and laughter of  your customers

yes, I miss those days. it had shaped my middle age life, I thought until I retire.

I am single, with no family to feed, the 3 branches earn a beautiful sum, good enough

to maintain 6 souped up cars, 2 SUVs with 3 latest cel phones every quarter. and still

have enough budget to travel and have fun. 

Who wouldn’t get addicted to this work?  I was the person fellow LANSHOP members

 consult  if they wanted any of their sales to increase. I give tips, on how to  operate a

 successful LANSHOP business 16 yrs ago. when I started DEN-R , I’m telling you

 this not to brag, but only to show you the height of  the  fall of the LANSHOP business 

 everyone here in my neighborhood knows about. I had competitors who tried and 

failed. during reunions, gatherings, events, I thought nothing of taking  out my CP and 

checking how the sales are going, and wanted  to go back in a hurry,  in front of everyone.

friends know me, I dont attend events if its not important, because I open my 3 shops even

during the holidays, because not only had my work become my life, it had become my god.

 No one was taking it away from me. or so I thought.....

when my dad had stroke and passed on,  and the landlord told us that the entire lot where

my shops were will be demolished to  give way to a big condominium. I had to move to

another barangay and transfer whats left to our garage, because there was no available

place for rent. everyone (200 plus tenants ) have to get a place in a months notice.

the new place was not fit for this business, its inside a private subdivision. kids are not 

allowed  IN. and in less than a year, everything went down. when the govt announced a

lockdown, I decided to close everything, sell everything, and fight another day. 

Now this is the reality, because its true organizations close, brands fold, customers leave.

so, the calls from my friends became scarce.  because I cannot loan them money anymore

Even former colleagues inexplicably avoided me.(yes the ones who had huge debts) .

It became clear to me that my relationship with many of these individuals was simply 

based on my ability to sponsor , to loan, to help, and to give money when they needed 

them. and that is the hard reality of  life. those days are over.  

and this COVID virus? it will stay. forever with us. look, this is the 2nd time the govt

made an effort to quarantine NCR. MECQ, 2nd strict quarantine level.

The covid is  too widespread too transmissible. the pandemic may end at some point 

if enough people have been either infected or vaccinated but the virus will  circulate

 in lower levels around the globe. And will cntinue, and not go away. Thats for sure!


Outbreaks will still  pop up here and there. Even when a much-anticipated vaccine 

arrives, it only suppress but wont completely eradicate the virus. Like the flu, its here

 to stay. We need to learn to live with it.

this is your LOVERBOY Dennis signing out


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